Tag Archives | sex

"Be Careful Who You Trust – My STD Story" (An Anonymous Guest Blog)

When I was just 16 I met this boy and we hit it off immediately. We dated for 2 years. In January 2010 I noticed something was wrong. I kept getting these weird pains below the waist. Then one day I noticed a whitish looking lump. I knew what it was right away from self-diagnosis […]

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "Is Mirena The Type Of Birth Control I Should Be Using?"

QUESTION: I’m 19-years-old and I just recently became a mom. I don’t want to become pregnant again so I’m going to start birth control, specifically Mirena. Is Mirena what I should be using, since this will be my first time on birth control? I’m kind of scared. DESTINY’S ADVICE: Hi. Congratulations on your new baby! […]

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "Why Was There An Odorless White Discharge While I Was Having Sex?"

QUESTION: Hi. I’m 23 and the other night I had sex for the first time in 2 years. It had been a while! My partner used a condom but when we were having sex, he pulled out one time and we both noticed a white type of cream that was covering most of his condom. […]

"My Refusal To Have Unprotected Sex" (A Guy Needs A Female's Perspective)

Hi. I’m sending this to SoLatina in hopes of getting a females opinion. I’m actually a fan of SoLatina on FB. Kind of embarrassing but, oh well. lol This morning my girlfriend asked me to cum inside her. She’s on the pill but I feel really uncomfortable doing so. I trust her but I already […]

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – "Can I Get Pregnant From Having Sex While I'm On My Period?"

QUESTION: Hi. I’m 20-years-old and have been in a committed relationship for 6 months. My boyfriend and I have a very sexually active relationship. We always want to do it. lol My question is: If I’m on my period is it safe to have sex or can I still get pregnant? Or what if I’m […]

Sexual Health Expert Destiny Lopez – “I Have A Very Low Sex Drive. What’s Wrong With Me?”

QUESTION: I decided to write to you because I think I have a low sex drive. I am young, only in my twenties. I don’t know if this is something normal or if it has to do with the way I was raised. My family is very traditional. They never talked to me about sex, […]