“The ‘Whore’ Who Was Shunned” (A Guest Blog From Katrina)

Well ladies, here’s my story. I got pregnant when I was only 16. I was sleeping with my boyfriend’s best friend and the situation got very ugly. I left my boyfriend, started dating his best friend, and then got pregnant. He bailed two months into my pregnancy. He was “nice” about it, though. He just took all of his stuff (and some of mine) and left while I was at work to move in with his girlfriend, who I didnt know about and who was also pregnant. That’s karma for you, right? lol. I guess I got what I deserved. Well, he has never seen his son and I don’t even get the child support he owes. He called me once and told me I was disgusting and I should have had an abortion. He said that I ruined his life instead. So I moved on and just focused on my son.

A couple of months later, I got a babysitter, went to a party, and got way too drunk. I was trying to drown my pain in alcohol. Well, I ended up sleeping with an old friend and guess what happened?! Yes. We now have a daughter, born 1 year and 8 days after my son. He was furious when he found out I was pregnant. He went back to his ex and dropped me like I was worthless. He also doesn’t pay child support and only calls when he wants to ‘play daddy’ and show off to friends. I see his sister more than I see him. I recently decided to cut all ties with the ‘sperm donors’. My daughter was born in 2009, and now 3 years later I’m engaged to the man who was my only friend throughout all of this. He has always been there for my kids and me whenever we’ve needed him. We don’t live together and are NOT having sex. I’m not having another baby ever again! lol

I have raised two beautiful, perfect children. My daughter has brain damage from a birth defect while my son is advanced. Such a struggle every day but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. And I proudly proclaim that, I, Katrina, the ‘whore’ who was shunned by her church for carrying ‘bastards’, have oh so happily and through much sacrifice RAISED TWO WONDERFUL CHILDREN ALONE!

~Katrina~